In 2017, I was in a relationship with a girl. We were together for nearly 2 years. We lived together for almost a year, and I was deeply in love with her, she was my live. However, she ended up with another guy right after we broke up, no gap in between.

From a first glance of the situation, it seemed like she cheated on me and everything was planned. But, so what? What if she really cheated on me? Why did she cheat on me?

I shifted the focus back to myself, and concluded that what really happened was that I had lost my value during the relationship, I got complacent, failed to stay on top of myself to get better, add more values, and organize my surroundings. Till this day I still believe that if I am on top of myself, if I had stayed healthy, and stay productive, have plans for the future, she would never have left me.

When I realized this, I promise myself to work really hard, so hard that no one will believe how I was when I was a young adolescent, I want to let her see that she had choose the right man. As time goes on, I realized that her leaving was the turning point of my life, I started making the change, but let that not be the only reason that I strive to improve. My family, those that I love and those that support me, they are what matters. So now, I am working really hard so that I can have more in life, build a good foundation for my family, and a give my future generation a higher starting point.